According to Merriam-Webster, "hate" is defined as “intense hostility & aversion that often comes from fear, anger, or injury. It can also mean extreme dislike or disgust,” …. As a verb, it means “to feel intense dislike or extreme aversion for someone or something.”
Hate is an ugly word and an even uglier emotion. When you say you either hate someone or something you are defining that person or thing as unworthy of love. God hates sin, but hates none of His creation, no matter how they act or what they do. Nothing can cause Him to hate you… nothing. Having said that it should be pointed out that when someone whom God loves insists on going his or her own way they are pushing God’s love to the side, making it a nonessential thing in their life. Without a relationship with God you will never be able to be in His presence and reap the benefits of knowing Him. Now we don’t DO things to gain blessings, we DO things because they are the right thing to do; like being kind to another, or treating others the way you’d like to be treated. That’s Biblical and just a couple of things that are the right thing to do. Is it pleasing to the Lord? Absolutely. Why? Because it is taught in His scriptures which means it comes from His heart.
We should feel compelled to live in peace with a spirit of kindness instead of cultivating hate that leads us nowhere. Sure, people get on our nerves, even make us mad, but to hate someone or something is taking our feelings to another level; a level that simmers and ultimately burns all that is around both you and the party it is aimed at. With hate there are no winners, only hurt feelings and a compromised disposition. For the Christian the word hate should not ever be found in our vocabulary. Only regarding sin, nothing else. We shouldn’t hate those who disagree with us, but if we know we are right, pray for them. Pray that either they will become open minded to the proposed truth or that you would realize your own error and alter your way of thinking or your approach.
People don’t seem to want to calmly discuss anything anymore. We seem to live in a “I’m right, you’re wrong”society where tolerance is wearing very thin. Don’t respond with hate. That is ALWAYS the wrong approach. Always. Seek a spirit of calmness from the Lord if you are saved. If you are a non-Christian, you’re basically on your own with no resources to draw from but a Psychology website. Even then hateful people aren’t likely to venture to any sites that may help them. They are too hellbent on despising the supposed opposition. Love conquers all. Hate conquers nothing. It raises your blood pressure, and is generally not at all healthy for you as a person. An unhealthy heart can kill you. Living in peace can bring rest to your body, soul, & spirit. You choose your own path. Hate is unnecessary, but love is essential. Love doesn’t reveal weakness of character; love reveals strength of character because we will ourselves to do that which may not come naturally to us. It’s much easier to allow your emotions to run free, which constitutes running amok. It’s more difficult to pull back on the reins and take it easy. Self-Control is also essential and is listed in scripture as a healthy attribute. Take in the positive, discard the negative and learn to be content is all circumstances.
Until next time, walk with the King & be a blessing.
In His Name & for His Glory,
RL Keller
Bread of Life Ministries