Respect Yourself
To respect yourself is to have a healthy view of yourself or healthy self-esteem. Who we are is not based on what we’ve accomplished, but who we are in Christ. We have a healthy self-worth if we have a right relationship with God. Even then our self-esteem can become beaten down by others; whether friend or foe. While that’s unfortunate, it doesn’t have to take place or if it does you can minimize the damage to your psyche by fighting to focus on the Lord in the face of such attacks. I’m not going to lie, it’s difficult to do that, but God is with you even in the trenches of relational warfare.
As believers in Christ it is necessary to humble ourselves before the Lord. We are to understand our role in God’s realm. We must learn to love ourselves even as God loves us. The Holy Spirit within us is who God uses to lift us up spiritually speaking.
Our humility should never be as a show, pretending to be spiritual when it in reality is just an act to appear pious. There needs to be a realness to our lives, which speaks to our integrity, and our true personality in Christ. As a believer there is truly no reason not to have healthy self-esteem.
When we respect ourselves we will value ourselves enough to avoid questionable situations which can lead to sin. Sin enslaves and alters our behavior in unhealthy ways. A true believer will see themselves with sober judgment as spoken of by the apostle Paul in Romans 12:3 - “Do not think of yourself more highly than you ought, but rather think of yourself with sober judgment, in accordance with the measure of faith God has given you.”
Don’t think of yourself too highly which can lead to pride and arrogance. Keep your self-image in check, striving to be selfless rather than self-absorbed. God blesses those who follow His guidance. He honors those who allow themselves to be led by Him. Respect yourself.
Until next time, walk with the King & be a blessing.
In His Name & for His Glory,
RL Keller
Bread of Life Ministries
Resource: www.gotquestions.org