James 1:19-20 New Living
Translation (NLT)
“Understand this, my dear
brothers and sisters: You must all be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow
to get angry. Human anger does not produce the righteousness God desires.”
an•ger n. A strong feeling of displeasure or hostility.
To make angry; enrage or provoke.
Why do we get
angry? Impatience could be one reason. When things just aren’t going our way on
a given day we have a tendency to lose our temper. In the metallurgical world
losing temper means simply that the material has either lost its hardness and
become soft or lost its flexibility and become brittle. In our case, we have
lost our flexibility. We have allowed circumstances beyond our control to get the better of us. We have allowed
ourselves to get riled up, to become ticked
off and it’s usually all downhill from there. I know because I lose my
temper when things don’t go my way sometimes. I’m much better than I used to
be, but that side of me still rears its’ ugly head from time to time. How silly. We allow things that we cannot
control get us so upset that we act in uncharacteristic ways and say inappropriate
things.
Fortunately, this
comes as no surprise to God. He knows us better than we know ourselves and I
think He may just send some of these annoyances our way to see how we handle
them. As believers we are to grow spiritually. The resources are at our
disposal at all times, we just always seem to be doing something else besides
taking advantage of them. We need to remember that we are ambassadors for Christ.
Are we acting like it? Are we living like it? God knows we are frail and
fault-filled. He also knows what we can
be in Him. Let us all avail ourselves of His wonderful tools to become all we can be in Him. It’s a learning
process; we are constantly under construction. Let us learn from our mistakes
and make adjustments in our behavior so as not to look foolish to others.
Each trial comes
with a lesson from God attached. We should
be asking Him to reveal that lesson to us so we don’t have to continue to deal
with the same type of situations over and over until we get it right. The Lord loves us and anything that He causes
or allows is for our ultimate good and His greatest glory! Until next time, walk with the King and be a
blessing!
Resource: The American Heritage Dictionary of the
English Language.